Getting Sofisticated.

Once you've plucked up the courage to ask, you may be surprised. There could be a lot of things that you can do together to make it more exciting. Some things, that on the face of it, are quite mean. But then that's BDSM for you!



You don't have to sound like a Sargent Major on a parade ground to be dominant!

How do you ask?

The Internet is a wonderful thing. It has all sorts of images; all sorts of people living every kind of lifestyle. And all just a few mouse-clicks away.



In my fantasies the put-upon lady always has a favourable reaction. They are willing to experiment. They are exceeding generous with their patience and understanding. This is what fantasy is for. It is very safe in your head!



Some of my fantasies may include a lady that is a little moire devious, and enters into the spirit of the tease from the off.



Would she then take it too far? Would you like her to? Obviously in fantasy the answer is a resounding, "Yes".



But what of reality? At the end of the day, you'll just have to ask.



...and live with the consequences.

Self-Bondage

Not quite on topic? Think again. Anyone that loves playing with chastity devices, but has yet to find a keyholder loves self bondage - or a form of it, at any rate.

I think it highly erotic seeing a lady tie herself up. Of course it's all perfectly safe; the cameraman's there! If you are into this kind of play, please be careful, and remain safe.

If you check out my links, you'll see I've added Chimera Bondage. The lady in the photo has only done one session with them, but I think she did a lovely job. What's more, she's a Londoner! And we've never met! My loss.

Obviously the lady is sub, but then so am I. So, she would obviously understand my fantasy?



P.S. The lady's name is Pandora Blake. Check out her site here and her blog here. I do hope she doesn't mind me stealing an image or two.

With All My Heart

Incurable romantic alert!

I firmly believe that sex games will bring a couple closer together. Just remember that love is a game for two, not just one. Ideas can come from anywhere, and should be welcomed. Be sure to distinguish between the practicle and what should remain in fantasy. Nothing wrong with a good yarn. You never know, it could spark an idea.



Again, Happy New Year. And thank you for following.

Fantasising As Exercisie

There are many people that get their mental exercise by jumping to conclusions. However, I'd recommend the following exercise. Much better.

Opus

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One Year plus 2 Days Ago

Well, hoz about that, then? Over the year. Happy New Year, everyone. - And especially to those that follow this blog. I'm encouraged that there's so many. It means there are far more that remain anonymous, and just keep the link in their favourites. It's kinda overwhelming for me to think about this. As you know, it's not why I started this blog.

At the moment, I intend to carry on. I think it's becoming more difficult to be original, but I know quite a few of you say that you enjoy the repeated themes. Thank you, all.