More people are submissive than dominant, sexually. Well researched fact - honest. I think the ratio is in favour of the dommes at three to one. (This one is from memory. Since I'm getting on in years, I could be mistaken!) So, what to do?
Those of you familiar with my blog will know I like oriental ladies. These pictures caught my eye. I like the lady, but she is obviously sub! What is a sub to do? Fantasy provides the answer...
There are a large number of people that love to be regressed to a simpler time: their youth. Infantalism is fine, but it's not my thing. The part of this fantasy best left in your head is the brainwashing. People are very programmable, and it is scary how easy it is. (Just look at women's magazines and advertising in general.) The main reason for me is, so much could go wrong.
I think that this is one of those things, like breath control play, best left to a highly qualified medical practitioner. I'd want to see a full set of confirmed qualifications, before even talking to someone about it, let alone considering it.
Anyway, the fantasy is an entirely safe place for it to happen.
Another thing that sends me is a lovely innocent looking lady in a lovely wrapping. I prefer black, tight and shiny. (Of course, I've no idea why.) I always think that the wrapping came first and the chastity play can second. (Again, I've no idea why.) I certainly don't think fetish gear more generally acceptable that chastity play.
I'll have to consult a shrink for some insight. I wonder if I'd get carted off to a rubber room? Stop it!
I love to turn quite ordinary looking lovelies into something a little kinkier. The images I pick have ladies that have something in their look, which says that there might be more to her that just a pretty girl.
I love surprises, and seeing an ordinary girl comming out with some of this stuff is quite a nice surprise.
Some of my fantasies revolve around finding that special someone that shares my proclivities. But I'd much rather swap the excitement of the new for the security of the long-term relationship.
I've always liked comics, right from an early age. Captioned images is the adult equivalent. I find that creating these captions on images I find interesting, helps me relax. Yes, it's escapism. It seems that only a lucky few live the fantasy. I think we all want to escape to a better place, and we all have our ways of getting there.