Meeting My Soul-Mate

So... the title... Obsessive. Is my soul-mate also going to be obsessive? Now there's a thought. Something to look forward to?

Tempting

So, imagine... You've just persuaded your loved one to lock you up in a chastity device. She understands that keeping you chaste for more than a week is part of the game. However, after a few days...



What would happen next?

Courage And It's Rewards

How would you react, if your loved one told you a favourite fantasy? Would you reward their courage?

All too often, I think, we keep secrets from the very person we shouldn't. I also think that being more receptive and approachable will make us a better person. How good do you think you are?

If I Like This, I'll Do That

All games have a negociated set of rules. Fair exchange is no robbery, right?

Games People Play

There are all sorts of games people play. (Within a relationship.) Some are for power, some are for a new dress. My preference is always to see the daggers coming in from the front. I hate being manipulated. I know I do things to get my own way, and I always regret it after, even when I'm not caught and confronted. I guess I've never found my soul-mate.

I think this is spoken of much, and understood little. To me, a soul-mate is a person that does not manipulate, nore needs to be manipulated. They complete the other half of the couple our species is biologically designed to be. My search continues.

Until then, let the games play on...

Strange And Unusual

Another inimacy situation! The two newlyweds in this fantsy are obviouly well suited. If only all relationships were that well matched, what a lovely world it would be? But would that make us lazy? I think that compromise and sacrifice and tolerance and patience are an integral part of a loving relationship. The real world is not perfect, but with a little effort it could be rather nice. I suppose my idealist side is showing.

When you're feeling run down or tired, there's always the fantasy...

Accept No Substitute

I think chastity games with dildos for the lady are very sexy. Substitution of the male member does not necessarily mean a substiute for intimacy between a loving couple. (Case in point: Edge of Vanilla, with Tom & Mrs Edge. Thank you, both.)

Where intimacy is concerned, my advice: accept no substitute.