Thursday, 4 February 2010

Do Nice Girls Wear Leather?

A little while ago I started a thread on a BBW site, and asked the question whether any of the ladies actually liked leather, and all things black and shiny. Of course, if your look hard enough, you'll find anything. I was much encouraged that some genuinely like fetish wear.

I could ask the same question about domination. With apparently only 5% of the female population truely sadistic, but 15% of the male population masochistic, it's not a surprise that there would be a lot of put-upon ladies out there. (%s are from memory of Kraft-Ebbing's work, and are the extreme end of the scale.)

And anyway, what is a nice girl? One that does what you like? Don't forget this is rather selfish. It never fails to amaze me how many couples forget why they fell in love in the first place.

So, I'm always on the lookout for a nice girl. :-))





1 comment:

Laura said...

I'm a nice girl. My brother introduces me as the "nice sister" though he has 3 sisters. I babysit for my other sister, even when I don't really and truly want to. I smile at people just to bring more smiles into the world. I really believe it is so easy to be negative and so important to be optimistic and positive in the world. There has to be a balance.

And yet, having said (or typed) all of that... I am Domme. I have such a good time being wicked and evil in this way. Maybe it's because I am so nice. It does get a bit tiring being nice. It is particularly annoying the way people assume someone nice is easy to take advantage of and gullible. Maybe being a Domme is my bit of payback. As we all know... payback is a bitch.

I don't know about wearing leather. I am a BBW. I haven't bought fetish wear before. I do like showing cleavage sometimes. With a lot of cleavage to show I am select about how much and where I show it. Leather is kind of expensive to try and find I don't care for it. I'm not overly fond of tight clothing. I enjoy romantic looking clothes more than dark and leathery.

Writing this was so much fun I am going to post it to my own blog now. :)

http://romanceandbondage.blogspot.com/