Forever And A Day

Forever is a long time! But you can do just one more day in chastity, can't you?

I think this lady is so cute. Clearly she's thinking about something. Oh, I know...

Little Group

Tom, I know you said you didn't like the number of Chastity Island fantasies, but what about going on holiday with a group of friends, where all the ladies are keyholders?

Venus Out Of The Waves

How many of you know the story of Venus? (Her Roman name. Aphrodite to her Greek worshipers.) She was born out of the waves on a beach on the island of Cypress.

You all know my love of Leopold's novel, right? Would Venus/Wanda look like this in your dreams, too?

Get Away From It All

It's holiday season. How many of you have tried behaviour that's a bit more risqué, when you're away from your own hometown? Does the fact that you're likely to never see anyone that'll whiteness any embarrassment again? It does free one to be more bold. Is this part of the way you'd relax?



My preference is to have quite, intimate moments. I don't need an audiance for my kinks, just a partner in crime.

Chastity Virgin

I'm not one for one-night-stands. I'm a romantic, and must feel a connection, if I'm to be intimate with someone. I think this is in part due to my Catholic upbringing. I think I'd feel like I was using someone, if I didn't have an emotional connection. I suppose my moral centre is an integral part of me. With this established about me, I understand the diversity of people out there, and have experienced a relationship with a submissive lady that liked to feel 'used'. It was great fun, all be-it short-lived.

I think each relationship is unique. Or it might be that we concentrate on the new things we try with a new person. It's like there are many virginities for us to loose. I'm no longer a spanking virgin. (Both giving and recieving.) Same for being a bondage virgin. etc. etc. (Complete list on successful application of bed mate only. Thank you for peeking.)

Do all good Catholics wish they could marry a virgin? Now there's a tease...

Baggage (Emotional)

We all have it. How does it affect a new relationship? Do you find it getting in the way? No easy answer, is there?

I suppose the best fantasy, in these circumstances is that she had played T&D and chastity games before. Then the baggage could be used positively.



Of course it could mean that she is further along than you. Whatever the position, a relationship is a team effort. Like a team of horses pulling a cart. If the horses are going at different speeds, the cart fall over.

The general answer is easy: communication. What you communicate is the difficult bit.

Good luck.

Embarrassment

I don't think there should be anything that causes embarrassment between a loving couple. It used to annoy me when I discovered my ex-wife kept a problem to herself, and it then grew, but I had the solution all along. If only she wasn't embarrassed to ask, or even confide in me. (I must admit, most of these were work related, and were to do with computers. I used to train people, but she refused to seek my advice.)

This has a habbit of spreading to other areas of the relationship, and should be nipped in the bud. Share everything. - Scorpios, I know this is particularly difficult for you, but please try!