Monday, 27 July 2009


I don't think there should be anything that causes embarrassment between a loving couple. It used to annoy me when I discovered my ex-wife kept a problem to herself, and it then grew, but I had the solution all along. If only she wasn't embarrassed to ask, or even confide in me. (I must admit, most of these were work related, and were to do with computers. I used to train people, but she refused to seek my advice.)

This has a habbit of spreading to other areas of the relationship, and should be nipped in the bud. Share everything. - Scorpios, I know this is particularly difficult for you, but please try!


subservient-husband said...

what we have found helpful is everyday I compile a journal of my activities and thoughts/feelings during the day. At the end of the day, my wife asks me to tell her, and I recount my journal for the day. This allows her to ensure my time is being used properly and also as a way of keeping track of my emotional state.

She keeps her business to herself.

ptathuk said...


This sounds like a 24/7 D/s relationship. If you're living the fantasy, then great; whatever works.

My observations were directed at part-timers.

I wish you both well