I've been to some fetish parties. I've had a lovely time, admiring the views. However, my favourite times are when there's no loud music, and you can hear the others around you. Some of the conversations have been really special.
I think it must be an age trait. I did the loud music thing when I was younger, but that was at concerts. Seeing Pink Floyd, Genesis, Status Quo, and the loudest of them all, the Who. (Still think they have the record in the Guiness Book Of World Records - Charlton Athletic 1976?)
Now, I'd prefer to talk to people. Share views, collect and compare wisdom; you know the form?
The one thing I never managed was to make it to a private fetish party. Must be why I'm fantasising about one, now?