In a teasing game, everbody wins

One thing that's very difficult to imagine is the way your partner feels about their needs. Obviously communication is key, but words seem so inadequate sometimes. Orgasm is the most obvious way of seeing a sucessful completion of the sex act. However, in chastity play, the objective is different. The whole point is it's one-sided nature. You need some rudementry rules to the game. With teasing, everybody wins.