I've touched on the game theme before, and how it strengthens relationships. Getting to know the games that turn eachother on is the most grand adventure. Be sure not to make it one-sided. There-in lied demons that end marriages. (Sad and bitter experience, here.) I saw a quote on a forum board a long time ago that I loved. I paraphrase, but they said: I offer my 2c so you can spend yours more wisely.