Tell Me A Story

I think this is my favourite fantasy. Just as I keep returning to the chastity theme, I love to be told stories. Being a captive audience is hot, too.

The Masochist says to the Sadist...

"Hit me, hit me." But in my fantasies she does...

Do we take Nudity for Granted?

You probably found your way here because you were surfing porn. (Followers aside. But then... how did you guys first get here to follow? Humn?) I love the female form. You probably noticed? So do I have double standards when I see young girls flashing at clubs, when they clearly have had too much to drink? I think close-up and personal flashing should be something lovers do. Definitely not something to do when drunk. Do I sound prudish?

Now, on the Internet. Ah, now. Humn, there goes that double standard. So what's the difference? For every exhibitionist should there be a voyeur?

I think the key is the artificial relaxant. If you need it, then you probably shouldn't be doing what you're doing. I think self-respect should come into it somewhere. And if the girls concerned don't respect themselves, how do they hope to attract guys that respect them?

Holiday Season Again

Are you thinking of your holidays, again? Time to kick back and relax? Looking forward to a well deserved rest? Well, in my fantasies I have a different kind of holiday planned...











Sometimes a little help is required.

Hello Laura

I've just noticed comments from a new poster. (9 March 2010) Takes me a while, but I get there in the end!

Her words of wisdom can be found at Romance and Bondage.

I posted a question Do Nice Girls Wear Leather? (Feb 2010) Her comment was:

Laura said...

I'm a nice girl. My brother introduces me as the "nice sister" though he has 3 sisters. I babysit for my other sister, even when I don't really and truly want to. I smile at people just to bring more smiles into the world. I really believe it is so easy to be negative and so important to be optimistic and positive in the world. There has to be a balance.

And yet, having said (or typed) all of that... I am Domme. I have such a good time being wicked and evil in this way. Maybe it's because I am so nice. It does get a bit tiring being nice. It is particularly annoying the way people assume someone nice is easy to take advantage of and gullible. Maybe being a Domme is my bit of payback. As we all know... payback is a bitch.

I don't know about wearing leather. I am a BBW. I haven't bought fetish wear before. I do like showing cleavage sometimes. With a lot of cleavage to show I am select about how much and where I show it. Leather is kind of expensive to try and find I don't care for it. I'm not overly fond of tight clothing. I enjoy romantic looking clothes more than dark and leathery.

Writing this was so much fun I am going to post it to my own blog now. :)


Thank you, Laura. I was wondering if any ladies read my blog, now I know. I hope you know the reason for my delay in replying, and also hope you continue to add your 2c, so I can spend mine a little more wisely.





P.S. About that cleavage...

I'm Very, Very Angry!

I've just noticed some oriental posters that have not answered my requests to use a western font. I then noticed that there was a string of full-stops after each post. These turned out to be links. I feel so used! Excuse me, while I just go take a shower.

I've cleaned them all out, I hope. If they reappear, they will be removed. Same goes for any other attempts to use me.

My policy is that I'll only point to a commercial site, if it's run by a lady or couple that has some merit in my eyes. E.g. FetishKitsch & FetishKimmy. All my other links are to free sites.

As I 'borrow' images that are clearly not my copyright, I feel that I can't make money from this blog, by adverts, etc. It will annoy me if others try to do so. I know I'm one step down from a moral high ground, but that's the way it is.

Are You Happy?

Are you happy? What would make you happy? Do you even know? If you got what you thought would make you happy, would it in fact make you miserable? I suppose there's only one way to find out...



All the fun, but none of the responsibility. Now there's a recipe for happiness!

Will It End In Tears

In this world of ever-increasing thrills, one has to ask, "Where will it end?" I think life used to be less stressful years ago, because expectations were lower. Once you have what you've worked for, will you stop? Will you be happy with your lot? If the advertisers are to be believed: no. The same is true for the highs of love.

The imagination can go anywhere. You can relive the highs in so many different ways, but in reality some fantasies can only be done once. In you head is safer that outside. But don't let that stop you from sharing. It's not stopped me...

Good Technology

I don't know about you, but I enjoy good Sci-Fi. The type that explores an issue, rather than the black box solution. I think Star Trek Voyager was the perfect example of this. The episode was either fantastic or a complete let-down. When the writers had an off day, a 'magic' piece of technology would save the day. Argh!

But then there's fantasy. What if you could have your fantasy belt? What little piece of technological magic would make your dreams come true? Good Sci-Fi is also based on reality, otherwise it's Fantasy. (Which again falls into two categories: a challenging exploration of issues or pixie droppings.) Anyway, enjoy my issues!

Every Last Fantasy

I see poor communication where ever I look. It's a shame that more couples can't share their inner most thoughts. Sometimes it just has to be beaten out of you!



N.B. Remember: safe, sane and consensual.

Orientals Also Come in Large

I'm ever so glad that oriental ladies also come in 'large'. Perhaps by BBW standards this lady is mearly 'curvy'? Still, I like a women with surprises...