Thursday, 11 November 2010

Lonely? A Reason For Porn

I don't know about you, but those of us who remain single need to remind ourselves that there is still beauty in the world. (Okay, okay! And the occasional endorphin rush doesn't hurt, either.) I'm not sure that the number of lonely people had diminished with the advent of the Internet, or just remained the same.

It's a sad truth that many people think that a 'friend' in a forum is something more that a superficial acquaintance, and they can never compare to a real face-to-face interactions. I have had requests, from people with whom I've never communicated, to become my friend. When I sent them a nice e-mail thanking them, and asking why, I received no reply. I think it odd that these people just collect 'friends' like this. There doesn't seem to be a point. It would be very sad if they felt the need to have even this fleeting form of communication, and their collection of 'friends' was some sort of security blanket.

Those of us that were around before the Internet, have a keen sense of distinction between an Internet 'friend' and a personal friend. Those that have grown up with the Internet sometimes have to learn this distinction the hard way.

The Internet can seem like a big club, but retain your perspective.










If you're submissive and without a partner, maybe this will cheer you up in time for the festive season?

5 comments:

Jabber43 said...

Interesting comments about internet "friends". Now I will find a social network where I can ask to be your "friend" ;-)

ptathuk said...

Jabber43,

Thank you. You just made my point - we've communicated!

Love the return to Spain, btw.

ptathuk

vanillaedge said...

Hey PT -

I just added this blog to our new resource aggregate. I know you're not posting as regularly, but I like your style, so I included it in the updates.

Keyheld is mainly a blog link, but I've got links to other interesting reading, as well.

Maybe you and your other readers can check ti out and let us know what you think.

ptathuk said...

Tom,

It's an excellent blog. A hub for good chastity info and experiences. I'm honoured you chose to include mine. Thank you.

ptathuk

BOB said...

I love the photos of the women "clubbing". Ive noticed over the past 10 years that women are becoming more and more assertive.Im often stopping by friends's houses and finding the husband cleaning or doing laundry, while the wife is out with her girlfriends on a"Girls Night Out". A few times ive stopped by a friends house to find him cleaning.While i was helping my friends out i asked where thier wives were.On at least 3 different occaisions i was told that the wife was out with girlfriends at a club that featured male strippers.

More and more ive noticed male friends being forbidden by thier wives-to-be from having bachelor parties.But these same wives-to-be then have bachelorette parties where they go clubbing or see male strippers,ect.

The world has defintly changed in women's favor over the past 20-30 years