Saturday, 5 March 2011

Are Mean Girls More Attractive?

As any good masochist will tell you, (after they've begged you to be mean to them), a mean cruel lady has something extra that makes her even more attractive. Aside from the obvious: authority figure makes us feel safe and secure, (bondage reference unintentional - honest), what is it? Or is it that simple? I need structure, and this is a structure?

I like physical pain (in small doses), but given a choice between emotional torment or a smack with a stick, I'll take the stick, every time. (Hopefully short of a hospital visit!)

So everyone, the mantra? One, two, three: Safe, sane and consensual. (This trio should come with a safe-word, agreed before play starts. - Just stating the obvious. Or at least, I hope it's obvious.)

And now some fantasies, with mean girls...










14 comments:

Weave said...

Gawd, those last two girls are HAWT!!!

ptathuk said...

Thank you, Weave.

ptathuk

Dorpsgek said...

For some reason, ChancesOfCumingToday and CellInTheAttic really hit the spot for me.

ptathuk said...

Dorpsgek,

Thank you for taking the time to comment.

I have no idea why these things turn me on, either. Hope you continue to enjoy.

ptathuk

Throne said...

All of these captons are good but I favor the ones in which the ladies tell the guys what they're going to do to them. For me, having them say, "Do you want me to keep you locked up?" isn't as good as "I don't care what you want, I'm keeping you locked." Meaner is better.

Tom Allen said...

I think I see what Throne is getting at, and the sheer number of caps in that style that I see published speak to the point that perhaps a lot of people prefer that.

But I also like PTs perspective on this - instead of coming at this from the Mistress Cruella scene, he's looking at how chastity play might have begun, and later, grown on the partner. Sometimes the backstory can be pretty ho, too, as you imagine the possibilities.

BTW, I've been fooling around with a Tumblog (Tumblr Blog), and while I've been reposting some pics, I've taken to opportunity to caption some of them with a chastity theme.

In case you're interested:

The Edgier Vanilla

ptathuk said...

Throne,

I love the 'meaner is better', but as Tom says, I love the guy being the architect of his own demise. It's great when a couple become a couple in this, if you see what I mean? Careful what you wish for stuff. It's the incurable romantic in me blazing through. I just can't hide it! :-))


Tom,

Thank you for the empathy. Always appreciated.

ptathuk
P.S. Just added The Edgier Vanilla to my bloglist.

Tom Allen said...

Well, let me go back to Throne's comment:

"Do you want me to keep you locked up?" isn't as good as "I don't care what you want, I'm keeping you locked." Meaner is better.

"Do you want me to..." could strike one as being a bit toppy from the bottom.

However, my real life experience tells me that it's usually a progression. In our case, we went from week to week, then month to month before my wife just suddenly clicked.

That said,I don't ever remember her asking me my opinion beyond the second or third week.

Throne said...

The 'meaner is better' attitude doesn't rule out love or partnership. It can still be a case of the guy creating his own fate too, but in the way shown in some of PT's captions, when the gal finds she likes all that control and carries it further than he initially wanted. And the meaner she is, the more opportunity is created for romantic 'making up'.

There's lots of range to play around with in with these scenarios. I'm glad this site is open to discussing and exploring those variations. Thanks, both of you.

ptathuk said...

Tom / Throne,

Just seen the comments. I want to thank both of you for your feelings and insights.

I think it's good to voice our personal slant on these topics. (Airing our personal preferences.) Saying the same thing in different ways will obviously help more people with their different styles.

Tom, I'd love Mrs Edge to voice that 'click' you mentioned. I'm sure I saw something of the sort in your semi-autobiography story. But of course, they were your words. I also remember reading her slant on chastity play, but I think it was general. I can't remember her descibing the moment of clarity - the 'click'. Maybe I'm showing my age and have forgotten it?

ptathuk

Throne said...

For a better idea of where Meaner is Better can go, in this case without the romance, check my story MEAN KEYHOLDER WIFE. It was just posted on Altarboy.

ptathuk said...

Throne,

Love the story. See the Cuckolded With Love part 2 is also up.

Look for a post on my other blog.

ptathuk

102 said...

Love the site. Who's the girl in the second-last picture with the pink high-heel? Do you have a link to more pictures of her? I wish she was my mistress.

102 said...

The blonde girls name is "Hannah Rory"