In the game you should be able to say anything. Sometimes hearing the impossible is a great turn-on. Never be frightened of words within the game. If it gets too intence, just safe-word out. Don't forget the cuddle, after.
I've always liked comics, right from an early age. Captioned images is the adult equivalent. I find that creating these captions on images I find interesting, helps me relax. Yes, it's escapism. It seems that only a lucky few live the fantasy. I think we all want to escape to a better place, and we all have our ways of getting there.