If I met a fellow obessive compulsive, would I be happy? Would she? I suppose there are too many factors to consider in even attempting to answer those questions. I'd like to think I'm a good communicator, but I've been missunderstood too many times. The truth is, we all have a personal style; a way we apporach the world. The trick is to find someone with a similar approach.
Once you find such a person, the answers to questions like, " Are you sure?", become, "Oh, yeah. Do it. Do it!"
The obvious cliché springs to mind: Be careful what you wish for... You just might get it.