Emotional Blackmail

I think I've mentioned this before? Never say things like, "If you love me you'd..." This line of persuasion only proves that you've no idea about your partner's feelings, and wish to side-step them.

Inevitably the question of love will be raised. It should be in the context of having had a full and frank exchange of views. But not as the final "Do this or you don't love me", argument. Your communication must be better than this. Much better!