Tom of "The Edge of Vanilla" asked to see more ladies closer to his own age-group. I must admit I also find the more mature, buxom ladies very appealing. There is something secure about fantasising what is obviously a long-term partnership within marraige. It is after a lot of the experimenting has been done, and you know what each of you likes. There is of course the danger that such a state could become stale. But it's up to the creativity of the partnership to make sure this doesn't happen.