Having finally figured out what makes me hot, it would be great to have the vigour of youth to fully enjoy it. The other attraction must be: we're all geniuses in hindsight. Having the money to invest in a litle company approached by IBM to make an operating system, when the little company was operating out of a garage. (Microsoft, for those not into computers.) This would leave all the time for indulgence. Another fantastic fantasy!
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Dunno. If I'd know about chastity belts earlier, I can think of at least one dysfunctional relationship I'd still be stuck in. Fetish can be a way of trying to dodge growing up.
But... it would have been hot :)
Giles,
You're right. There is no substitute for love, when playing these games. But I would argue that playing these games is the adult equivilent of 'Doctors & Nurses', or 'Cops & Robbers', whe we were young. I think those games strengthened friendships, fetish games should strengthen a relationship, if you're doing it right.
ptathuk
Yes. Relationships with BDSM in them are great whatever your age. God knows I spent some of my late teens tied to a bed...
But, purely BDSM relationships have their dangers to young obsessive men. Had some older lady scooped me up in my early 20s, I'm not sure I would have ever escaped.
Giles,
Knowing what you now know, would you have stood in the scoop zone, thumbing a lift with your 'Obsession or Bust' sign?
ptathuk
Yes, because even with the knowledge, I'd still have been 21 - and there is the problem.
Giles,
Sounds like a lovely fantasy.
ptathuk
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