If only it was easy to negociate a deal. Some people love the thrust and parry of the argument. Some, (like me), prefer to get on with it. Obviously I don't think that a long drawn out negociation is fun. I do think that with any S&M / BDSM / TPE there has to be a discussion of limits. But it is a means to an end, not the end itself.
Don't get me wrong, if arguing is your bag, then good for you. It's just not for me. I look forward to the point, below...
4 days ago