Sometimes I think extreme chastity play fantasies are as rare as romanticism. Stereotypically guys are not known for their romantic gestures. If they do perform the occasional feat, it is occasional. It's all well and good saying that better communication is required. There's just one tiny snag: Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus.
I friend of mine (female, but not girlfriend) game me a copy of this excellent book. We discussed some of it, but I wished we had the chance to discuss more.
It's been a while. Perhaps I should re-read it? Can't hurt, right? Especially if there's something you want your partner to do for you? Me being selfish, again! That's the beauty of a fantasy, she never gets mad at you. You might get punished, but she's never mad at you.
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